Stop saying ‘trap’

If you’re not in the anime fandom, a ‘trap’ is something you might comically remember from Tom and Jerry episodes. A metal contraption that promises mice the idea of a reward like cheese, but only behind biting, murderous teeth. Suddenly it’s not so funny, because I’m now thinking of real rat traps, decapitating the poor little critters under false pretence. Some traps are humane, sure, but the fact remains: you promised them something and fooled them before ultimately punishing them. And it’s not just mice that can be trapped.

Words have connotations, and that’s why words like ‘trap’ are problematic when used as terms for anime character archetypes – specifically whereby a character looks female but surprise! They’re actually male.

…to some degree. There’s not a lot of anime that use explicit language to convincingly declare characters as male/female or whether they would rather be female/male or if they are crossdressing. It’s too often a shallow punchline that rarely goes developed. I could point to examples like Astolfo: Astolfo has the ‘joke’ of characters not knowing their gender identity and having a silly reveal, but is also one of the more prominent characters of their anime, Fate/Apocrypha, and the archetype isn’t hung around their neck for anything other than scant comic relief scenes that lead nowhere. We don’t know if Astolfo identifies as transgender, non-binary or as male but crossdresses full-time. There’s endless discourse on the subject, but the fact is that there isn’t a concrete answer, locked behind a lack of fulfilling evidence – and Astolfo is only one character in a large pile of similar ‘I’m not a girl’ characters, with other extremely popular anime such as Re:Zero, Steins;Gate and Oregairu also fielding these sorts.

EEPQwbMXUAAlT_P.jpgI’ve researched it briefly, and I’ve been lead to believe that the term ‘trap’ originates from anime fansubbers trying to translate the pun of ‘otokonoko‘ and chose to use the then-popular meme from Star Wars where Admiral Ackbar claims ‘it’s a trap!’ Fast-forward a few years and the anime community is split, with some members considering literally or virtually every non-traditionally-gender-conforming/dressing character a ‘trap’. Many others realise the word is a bit jokey and only use it for characters with these ‘funny gags’ following them around at every revelation, but choose not to use this term for more serious characterisations of non-traditional-gender-conformity such as Hourou Musuko’s protagonists. I have no idea what the numbers are, but in many anime communities, it is the norm to use the term ‘trap’.

Now let’s rewind to my earlier statement. Taking the connotations of the word, one might assume that these characters are dressing and acting the way they are purely to fool men into having sex with them. The anime community has only just grown out of the endless ‘are traps gay?’ discussions, which were misguided attempts often based around whether ‘traps’ were just trying to sleep with men and also if it is gay to sleep with them.

This is a problem because it rings awfully similarly to ‘trans-panic‘. For those that didn’t follow the link, this is basically where revelations of sexuality or gender are legally allowed to be followed by violent self-defence. There are places where transgender people are actually being killed because they are seen in the eyes of perpetrators as ‘traps’ – trying to fool them, undermine them, humiliate them, ensnare them. This makes them angry, and people are killed. Defence-cases can be built-up around the perpetrators, allowing them get-out-of-jail-free-cards with laws allowing this to happen, but I look at the depressingly long list of transgender people killed each week and know that so many instances are simply unreported because of cultural bias against these people – solely for being who they are – and realise that in many cases, ‘trans-panic’ doesn’t even get to the courtroom discussion because it’s normalised in the streets.


Because of normalised language surrounding non-traditional-gender-conformity in the anime community including connotations to ‘traps’, we’re asking that we change our language to try and change the social pressures surrounding the perception of non-traditional-gender-conforming people so that they aren’t murdered or abused for their identities. Normalising terms like ‘trap’ feeds a cultural bias – unintentionally or not.

Of course, it’s not just for protection from murder. Many crossdressing people that identify as their birth sex aren’t into it for romancing the same-sex, and, obviously, transgender and non-binary people are just trying to live their lives as their identified gender. It’s pretty insulting to suggest that people like that are merely trying to ‘trap’ people of the same-sex, no?

I consider ‘trap’ a slur in the same way I consider ‘autistic’ a slur. Calling somebody you’re pissed off with ‘autistic’ to insult them has consequences; you’re ascribing people with autism the same negative connotations of the reason that you wanted to insult with. It’s the same with the term ‘trap’ – you’re tarring unrelated people with connotations, maybe without realising… or maybe you are realising and doing it anyway because you’re a douchebag that discriminates against groups of people for the way they are. Anyway, if you think the word is being used innocently, purely relegated to fictional characters, there are people in similar boats that do not want to be called ‘traps’ for those connotations and real-life, violent consequences.

Hell, the whole ‘joke’ concept around these people is kinda mean, too – maybe the trope could be called ‘a trap’ and not be too harmful, but outright knowing the characters as ‘a trap’ for their identity or style? That’s way too broad a brush-stroke, don’t you think?

It’s inconvenient to be asked this, I’m sure. Rejigging around this change… the community needs to readjust its language and its perception of character archetypes, seeing the people behind the stereotype, and I’m sure that can’t be easy.

Even if you can’t know these characters by their names and do away with trope-naming and archetype-pointing, there are other terms that you can use. I’ve seen some people suggesting ‘femboy’ as an alternative, with some Japanese-language speakers considering ‘femboy’ a closer translation of the ‘otokonoko‘ pun, too. Will ‘femboy’ or whatever term comes next be considered a slur? Probably. But it’s not too much of a grievance to be considerate, is it? I don’t see why there’s such a huge defence of the term ‘trap’. Early attempts at reclamation… apathy… fear of losing a joke… I don’t really know, but they’re weak excuses and I don’t see why I should tolerate them when they all sound like personal convenience is being selected over other people’s – not individuals, no, but a whole group of people with similarities – over other people’s livelihoods and well-being.

11 thoughts on “Stop saying ‘trap’

    1. Ooph, yeah. I really don’t get the hate we’re getting for asking people not to use a word. Not enforcing, not discriminating. Just asking. Politely, and explaining why. Boggles my mind.
      I feel like my blog’s content means I’ll be leaning to preaching to the converted, but I felt I had to write something! Bring on the arguments, if there are any. I’ll take ’em!

      Liked by 2 people

  1. This has been an issue that’s been simmering for a while now. I think a lot of the push back from anime fans and their resistance comes from a fear of the ‘morality police’ creeping into the fandom, which I think is a real thing that will happen as Anime hurtles ever close to the mainstream.

    Frankly, I would never use the word ‘trap’ towards a real life person, trans or otherwise, because to me. ‘Trap’ has always meant exactly what I think many anime viewers see the word as: That one character who looks so absurdly feminine but turns out to be a boy. (I normally just say cross-dressor or boygirl/girlboy) It was always a tongue in cheek joke with no cruel intent behind it, especially when most of those character turn out to be the most beloved and popular in their respective series. Let’s face it, Astolfo is pretty much the only character non fate fans remember from Apocrypha.

    Personally, I do think a lot of this has come from a community that (sadly) has to constantly be on the defensive when it comes to who they are, because there are some real fucking horrible people out there. Does that mean people haven’t adopted the term as derogatory slur? No this is the internet, and people are assholes. I think everyone could probably benefit if we lowered the knives for a second though.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. I’ve never found the ‘trap’ gag to be a particularly funny one and I wouldn’t mind it going, but I’m not asking it to go for any other reason than it’s not very funny; what I would like to see, however, is a change in the culture. I really don’t think there’s anything to lose by asking people to be nicer, and more considerate of other people’s feelings.

      Morality police criticising anime for featuring something ‘political’ (ugh, I hate that terminology) is a very different concept to being critical of meta culture. By all means, we should be policing how we talk, if only to catch out assholes, if only to make it a nicer place.I struggle to have a strong opinion on morality police trying to ‘cancel’ things, because I’m a classic critic: I only care about good/bad, and what supports the distinction in good or bad. But I also sympathise with the kind of people that refuse to accept there is any merit in something like Birth of a Nation.

      Liked by 1 person

  2. Whether it is funny or not is up to the person. I am in agreement that I never found it funny. Probably a chuckle or two, but that was just more “oh Japan” then anything. I just don’t think there was any negative connotation put towards the phrase until someone decided it was. Which is fine. People should be able to read the room, and ‘trap’ is never something that I would say anywhere. But I, and I think many people, are tilting their heads, because it always seemed like it was a word used in kind jest at a certain type of anime character. But that’s one opinion, people may have others and those are valid as well.

    As for morality police, I don’t think it is ‘politics’, it’s more a fear of outsiders coming in and try to rip away parts of the culture (fanservice, ecchi, etc) that are so ingrained in the medium, because they find them ‘distasteful’. That fear I think, drives a lot of this blowback, which you are seeing an example of with this whole trap nonsense.

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Unfortunately, the jest wasn’t kind. The way that a ‘certain type of anime character’ is handled linguistically is having consequences on real people.

      Trap isn’t a Japanese word. It’s not intrinsically Japanese term. It’s a coined phrase for a translation. Asking to change it isn’t a big hoo-ha. Asking people to get rid of the Japanese character archetype would be a problem, but this isn’t asking that.

      I must admit, I don’t see a ‘morality police’ trying to take away ecchi and such, but pointing out that it is problematic (which it is), and therefore boycotting it. The consumption doesn’t change and the market doesn’t change. It’s no different to me calling an anime crappy on this blog. Point out something is bad, and stick to it. There’s plenty of underground movies to prove that you don’t need a critical following to get a fan following, and anime being inherently underground furthers that point. You’ll always get people saying things like ‘if you like this, you’re disgusting!’, or ‘if you like this, you’re a paedophile!’, but you also get ‘if you like this, you’re tasteless!’, and I don’t really view it any differently. But, again, I only view things through a critical lens, so maybe I’m just a bit too unbiased to take a side here.

      Liked by 1 person

  3. Problematic (and holy fuck do I hate that word) is in the eyes of the beholder.

    Regardless, it is an issue, and I’m sure it won’t stop being one. It’s good to get different perspectives, which help fill out the corners. I don’t think I am completely right, because other people might have different life experiences. That’s just how things are.

    Liked by 1 person

  4. I have to say awhile ago I saw an Ani-tuber (forgot who) articulating the same thoughts as above. I really appreciate that you articulated this term, it’s history, and why it should stop being used in common anime-related vernacular. I missed when this came into play, so I was confused about the meaning, but found it rather distasteful in the first place. Thank you for articulating this so well with such a good set of examples and linking articles!

    Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply to SpaceWhales Cancel reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s